Getting Over
So you did it, you finally after seeing thousands of memes saying the worst they can say is no shot your shot and as expected they said no. I am laughing at you, what were you even expecting, huh? What were you thinking is going to happen when you took your friend’s advice, huh? Taking your friend’s advice to ask someone out is like doing NCERT and thinking you have any chance in JEE Advance. If your friend says you to breathe you should stop breathing.
Now it has been weeks since you have been spurned and you still are lost in their thoughts. You desire them all the time, you desire of cuddling them when you go to bed, you think of talking to them when you talk to your friends, you desire of hugging them when you hug your cousin, you desire of making out with them whenever you open a book but desires are beautiful only when there’s hope and you have lost it. Everything makes you feel worthless now which you always were but you were always allergic to facts, always keeping distance from them, not realizing that avoiding reality doesn’t change reality. You can’t focus on your studies and exams are coming and not even God will help there, he never does in the examination hall, you know that. Your memory has become souvenir of that person, you are adrift in it not knowing how to get out or if getting out is even possible? You are tired of thinking about them and crying every time you do so, you don’t wanna do it but you don’t know how to do it? You have decided to get over them cause you have realized they ain’t coming back definitely not to you (I can’t stop laughing at you) but you don’t know how? Don’t worry my despondent reader this is the reason I am writing this, to help you on your quest of finding hope and happiness again which have disappeared from your life like Game Of Thrones disappeared from POP Culture. These are the things my hopeless reader that you should and shouldn’t be doing to get your chimeric dream of being with that person out of your head;
- Doing Drugs
At some point, after the rejection, you might have thought of doing drugs and becoming full-on junkie thinking they might take pity on you, might understand your love, realize their mistake, and take you back but you shouldn’t do it cause firstly drugs are quite expensive you can’t even afford a chewing gum on your own and secondly, it’s a lousy idea cause the only thing you can get out of this is not love but jail for sure.
2. Self Help Gurus
Yeah, I know you know they don’t know anything, they actually don’t. I know you don’t like them nobody does. I know you think they just speak crap, what they say never makes any sense but nothing makes sense anyway. What is Self-help? Self-help is anything that makes you feel good even if there’s nothing to feel good about in your life. If you are male reading it, go to youtube and watch other men telling you how being single is best for you which men say themselves, to themselves to make themselves convivial after getting themselves rejected and how most women just look for money and success which they do and you don’t have any of them, and if you are female reading it read some feminist literature (especially radical feminism) you will stop looking at men as cute or hot and more like oppressors who look at women not like humans in lieu just a hole to fuck which most of them do.
3. Realization
This is the final and most important thing reader, you have to realize it’s not them who have hurt you it’s your feelings who did. You have to realize your feelings for that person will never be gone as Kanan Gill once said they came to change you and if you are changed it isn’t gone but a part of you that is going to live forever or at least till you find another one which you never will.
